Daily Log 09.07.09

Today I was quite pissed with myself for missing the train just because I was desperate to finish an email, but was stuck at trying to translate "helping hand". I consequently missed my lunch date with my friend and arrived late for lab. A lot of hassle for something small. But after thinking about it, I realise maybe I should accept this as part of who I am, faults and all. After all, persistence is usually a virtue. I just suppose I need to know when to let go. But essentially, its not so bad.

Oh, and after Jay's visit, I kinda have some stuff to reflect upon. Firstly, as XQ said, it is quite amazing that travelling with someone is a lot more different than just being normal friends. You really see a lot more and it can become either a lot more exciting or a terrible experience. In any case, it sheds light on the person's habits & character very well. So far, I feel the secret to a positive travelling experience with friends is a "don't tolerate the intolerable" policy. There must be a level of flexibility, but sometimes, must really give feedback. Only then can both sides find a good solution. Remember, always try to understand the other person's point of view b4 giving ur own opinion!

Areas where improvement can be seen:

1. Getting pple to be more positive: Today someone was complaining abt her research work and I didn't mince my words. I told her that with interest, everything is possible, but not everyone is suited for research. I'm quite impressed with my directness so far. 100 marks!

Sleep time: 1045-0700 --- need to catch up on sleep!