The Xiaochen story

I realised that I feel disturbed today, partially because I cannot protect the pple I love. I guess that should be something I need to work on as well. Today I was having lunch with the usual gang & they were discussing how to go for the Ruegen trip. Xiaochen complained that 16h train ride was too long. I tried to mediate but as usual, was not really good at controlling the situation. I should have been more firm about it and get the rest to address the problem. eg "如果你们其中一个人病倒了，就不是开玩笑的是。你们应该讨论一下，怎么能让大家玩得开心。钱方面如果能省，当然要省，可是健康也是财富，对吗？"

And also, when Yongxiang said something quite rude, and Xiaochen was a not at all amused, I should have jumped in & scolded him. "怎么这么猥琐。人家不开心了。”

Guess I still have a long way to go before I am fit too have a gf. haha ;p